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Fitting Right In to Life

Debra Redalia


Today Larry and I were driving to an appointment and while we were driving, I was just looking around admiring Life as we were passing by. I've noticed that since I've been writing this blog, and especially since I went through my big shift I have been being more aware of life around me. Instead of having much of my attention on buildings and shops and cars as we drive down the street, I'm seeing trees and animals and clouds and other elements of life, both more life and more detail about the life-forms I am aware of.

And so, while we were driving around, I was noticing the vivid colors of the autumn leaves in contrast to the grey skies. Right now where we live the branches of the apple trees are almost bare with brilliant bronze leaves that stand out one-by-one. Trees of other species that still had more leaves seemed on fire with their colors. Persimmon trees had no leaves at all, but their branches were full of their orange fruits, hanging like Christmas ornaments.

As we drove down the streets i was giving Larry running commentary on how beautiful all the trees looked to me. "Life is so beautiful," I said. And then, without thinking, I said, "I am part of Life."

And Larry said, "Then you fit right in."

Intellectually I have known I am part of Life for long time. But when Larry said, "You fit right in," something shifted. My knowing became experiential. Since I am part of Life, I am as beautiful as the trees and know how to live because at the deepest level I have all the information about how to live as every other species has, I just need to express it.

I'm feeling part of the whole today in a way I wasn't feeling before. Like I'm now dancing in a big circle dance, or playing an instrument in a symphony orchestra. I'm aware of myself as an element of the Whole.

uite simply, this blog is about orienting ourselves and our lives to life, instead of orienting ourselves and our lives to industrial consumerism. Here we are sharing our own journey. You come too.

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Debra & Larry Redalia
lifepartners + soulmates

For more than 30 years we have been delving into the nature and activities of life together. Indeed, this has been and continues to be the very reason we are together. With delight we research, explore, observe and even wake each other up in the middle of the night to discuss how life functions and how we can function as life—even while living in the modern world. We each are different from the norm, but we are different in the same way, so we have been able to think outside of the ordinary together and find the extraordinary workings of life.

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DEBRA REDALIA, Co-Founder of Lifely, has been researching and writing about lifestlye topics for more than forty years. After her first book on nontoxic consumer products was published in 1984, she went on to be the leader in this field as Debra Lynn Dadd. In June 2019, she retired from writing about toxics and industrial consumer products to establish The Lifely Group with her llifepartner and soulmate Larry Redalia. This next step into life beyond industrialization is the result of a lifetime of research and making lifely changes in her own life that have given her greater health and happiness.