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A Lifestyle Based in Life

The Natural Spring in Downtown Shasta


Until 1987, the only water I had ever drunk was tap water or bottled water or water from not-very-sophisticated water filters.

And then I learned that the town of Mt Shasta, California, had—and still has—a public spring! One of my clients brought me a bottle of water that she had filled directly from that source. Now you can purchase spring water in a bottle at almost any store, but that water goes through a bottling plant, so while it still has its minerals, it’s not quite as alive.

This water had just been taken from the spring hours before so it was almost like drinking it from the source.


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The Relationship Between Water and Trees

About ten days ago, the big story here in California was the announcement of extreme drought here, and in particular here in Sonoma County, where Larry and I live.

For me, this is not unusual, but this year seems to be particularly bad. We had hardly any rain over the winter and, in fact, we have had hardly any rain for the past four years we have been living here.

I remember as a child huge storms. And as an adult, I experienced storms so heavy that tree came down and creeks flooded.

Most people see this as a problem of Nature and consider that we humans have nothing to do with it. But we do.

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The Timeline of Industrialization

Hunter-gathers lasted 1000x longer than industrialization, and agrarian lasted 50x longer. Will lifely be next?


While writing Moving Forward to a Lifely Way of Life and This Very Short History of the Oil Industry Explains Why We Have Toxic Products Today I was looking at things that happened at various points in history. And I had a realization.

Our work here at Lifely isn’t something radically new…it is actually a continuation of the direct human participation in Nature that was occurring prior to industrialization. And this return to Nature will naturally occur after industrialization ends, because Nature is the ongoing foundation of Life.


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This Very Short History of the Oil Industry Explains Why We Have Toxic Products Today And Why We Need to Move Away From Industrialization


As I explore the subject of this blog, there are certain questions I have and hold in my mind. Occasionally information passes by that answer these questions perfectly.

Such was the case the other night when Larry and I were watching television. We don’t watch “industrial TV” where the whole point is to sell you things via commercials so the TV shows are designed around what will attract the largest audience to watch the commercials. No, we watch movies and archived television shows without the commercials, and we are finding some very interesting things.

Currently, we are watching episodes of the History Channel show Modern Marvels, which goes back to 1995. There are about 185 episodes to watch, but they are fascinating because they basically show how and why our industrial world came to be. They are, of course, presenting these stories from the viewpoint of glorifying the industrial creations of man, but we see just how and why things went wrong that led us to where we are today.

So we have been watching one episode every evening, and the next episode in the lineup was Oil

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Moving Forward Toward a Lifely Way of Life

Natural-Built Tiny House Incorporates Biophilic Design And A Living Roof Watch this for one example of what living lifely might be. Watching the video is making me smile and laugh and clap my hands 🙂

After writing posts about lifely products last week, it occurred to me that I should also write about about what what we mean when we say we are moving forward to “A Lifelstyle Based in Life”

Our underlying directive is to be “oriented to Nature.” To us, this means that Nature is the center of our lives and our intent is to understand Nature and live by its ways as part of the whole of Life, just like every other species.

We are, after all, a species of Nature—Homo sapiens—not industrial consumers. As they say, “When in Rome do as the Romans do,” so therefore, being of Nature, we should do as Nature does, not as materialistic industrialists dictate.


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Kyrgies All-Wool House Shoes (I Also Wear Mine Outside)

A couple of weeks ago I receive an email from Kyrgies, because I am on their mailing list.

I discovered them when I was doing Debra’s List (as Debra Lynn Dadd) and loved their wooly shoes. So much so I bought several pairs for myself and a pair for Larry and his Mom. And a lot of my readers loved them too.

Basically Kyrgies are “house shoes” made of 100% wool (with or without more sturdy soles). My favorites are the all-wool shoes which I happily wear around the house all day and outdoors (unless it’s raining) and even out-and-about (though they provide no protection if you step on something sharp. The only drawback is they do wear out, but I don’t mind purchasing a new pair every year or so.

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Definition of Lifely Products



“When you build a thing, you cannot merely build that thing in isolation, but must also repair the world around it, and within it, so that the large world at that one place becomes more coherent, and more whole; and the thing which you make takes its place in the web of nature, as you make it.”

— Christopher Alexander,
A Pattern Language
an architectural design text that applies to design of anything and everything


The big difference between lifely products and all industrial products is that they go beyond the whole idea of industrialization and take a leap into Nature.


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The Lifely Continuum of Products & The Journey to Lifely Products


As I stated in The Lifecycle of a Product, products are multi-faceted and may be better or worse across their universe of materials, manufacture, use, and disposal.  But then, products also fall within market sector categories that can indicate how they may affect health and the environment.

Recently I discovered that all products actually fall into a continuum that moves in degrees from the worst industrial products that harm health and the environment to the best lifely products that sustain health and the environment.

I this post I am going to outline this continuum as a reference point for evaluating and sorting products, and eventually making a decision to chose and use a product.

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Our Perfect Hotel Room Right on the Ocean


After we gave up our reserved cabin at the campground because it just wasn’t right, we then needed to find accommodations on the fly.

We started driving down Highway One, stopping in each town to see what was available. These are very tiny towns and all accommodations are privately-owned. Many are $300 or more per night.

As we approached Point Arena, suddenly our cell phone internet reception kicked in and we were able to use an online service to find a hotel. There was only one hotel. But it was right on the ocean! Just what we wanted!

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Exploring Westport

The impetus for coming on this particular trip was to explore the very tiny town of Westport.

We had driven through for the first time just about a month ago as we were taking an alternate route home from our Utopia.

As we drove through we were charmed by the small village of Victorian-era houses and buildings and wanted to know more.

So when it was time for Larry to choose a birthday present, to explore Westport was what he asked for. How could I refuse? I wanted to know more about Westport too.

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Welcome to Lifely!

Quite simply, this blog is about orienting ourselves and our lives to Life, instead of orienting ourselves and our lives to industrial consumerism. Here we are sharing our own journey. You come too. Read more...

Debra & Larry Redalia
lifepartners + soulmates

For more than 30 years we have been delving into the nature and activities of life together. Indeed, this has been and continues to be the very reason we are together. With delight, we research, explore, observe, and even wake each other up in the middle of the night to discuss how life functions and how we can function as life—even while living in the modern world. We each are different from the norm, but we are different in the same way, so we have been able to think outside of the ordinary together and find the extraordinary workings of life.

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